Sunday, July 20, 2008

Conversational Endurance

Italians love to talk. They engage in incredibly long conversations, spanning hours at a stretch, making the American in me want to cut out and go rope a steer. What accounts for the cultural difference between Italians and Americans in terms of the average person's tolerance, nay enjoyment, of long conversations?

During the time I've lived in Italy, I've just about tripled my conversational endurance. Below, I've charted the duration of one sample lunch conversation, during which a group of about 9 Italians spoke with each other, faces engaged and laughing, for nearly 3 hours, while I, now a varsity mingler by American standards, had to peel off just shy of hour 2:

2 comments:

diane von kirkwood said...

what about desire to talk to new visitors of the academy in july?

Markus Aurelius said...

that's great progress. Living in Spain in 1992, I learned similar endurance. I once participated in a lunch conversation that was literally 5 hours long, and then it was time for dinner. (I'm not kidding.) I'm not sure how I did that, looking back.

see you back in SF soon! -M